WHAT ARE YOU WITHOUT SOCIAL MEDIA

10 March 2016

There's always this question in my mind…...

"WHO AM I WITHOUT SOCIAL MEDIA?"

So called a "BLOGGER" aka "SOCIAL MEDIA INFLUENCER"..

Some of the people around me always says that : " Waaa, your life is good, just post a few photos and earn good money", "I wish i can do what you're doing ", " It is such a pretty girl privilege" etc. I have to admit that, I AM LUCKY. Yes i'm just lucky but you didn't see how much hard work and efforts i've put in for years. AND, it's definitely not because of a PRETTY FACE because i don't think i'm pretty enough to conquer the market. LOL! I'm sure there's tons of pretty girls out there who are 100000 times prettier than me, more talented than me and they have smoother skin than me! That's the reason why, i don't feel proud/happy at all when people actually says that to me. I would be more appreciated if someone knows all the efforts behind all these fake shit. 

BUT,  Who am i without social media?

Yes, i'm definitely nothing without social media. I'm an ordinary people like any of you. I need a degree certificate to get a full time job. But you know what, I'm worst than many of you because i don't have one. I don't have even have a diploma certificate and i don't even know how to use an excel. So what can i do then? NOTHING. I was thinking if there's one day, i need to work in a office, what is my office position gonna be? Hahaha, i guess i can only make coffee and do the toilet cleaning.

I'm a person who think a lot, especially during the time while i was driving..while i'm waiting for my food, when i'm pooping in the toilet, HAHAHA. My brains just can't stop thinking for a seconds.

Everyone has its own value. Your life is better than mine if you know how to value yourself.

“SOCIAL MEDIA IS NOT REAL LIFE.”   But we already knew that, didn’t we?

Of course, We don't have to give up social media althogether. It can be a great way to connect to new people that share similar interests, to inspire each others if you see it in a good ways. We just have to be mindful of not allowing it to affect us emotionally, take up too much of our time, or be a huge a distraction. We just have to pay attention to ourselves or the person right besides us instead of just checking your feeds. Be more mindful on how you spent your time. We shouldn't place our value on the amount of likes we get, because at the end of the day. It is just a social media, not EVERYTHING in life. What's the point of getting thousand of likes in social media but having ZERO real friends in reality? The concept of faking a “perfect” life on social media has been around almost as long as social media itself. 

The question is… Do you like the person you see in the mirror?

I'm an ordinary girl who try hard to achieve something in life. 

I'm a very insecure person. I always think a backup plan for myself.

That's how i started my own fashion business besides blogging. I don't always share a lot about my business in my social media platform because i don't want to be TOO relates with me (my social media). I want it be a platform for me to learn from basic, to experience everything step by steps by my own. I'm not good at it, but at least i'm learning. Just because i have NOTHING, i must work harder than the others.  I do enjoy the learning process of something new and i don't want people to label me. I  want people to know that i can do more than just blogging and post nice photos on my social media.

I want to live to my fullest potential.

 Therefore, i will work harder. 

I can't remember when is the last time i blogged about my feeling. It had been such a while i never pour it out to anyone. I find it necessary to pen them down, to mark and remember this learning process that is currently still ongoing. So here's another one after so many months. 

Thank you for reading.

Thank you for still reading my blog. LOL